Noting a Woman’s Body

God knows women’s bodies always have a way of getting our attention. This is not breaking news. But in the past two weeks two storylines have been breaking out and gaining traction on the female body, and I have been both painfully and gratefully reminded that there are always at least two sides to any story.

The headlining of the two stories started back in January of 2011 when Egyptian men and women joined in the collective unrest and civil protests against political and social injustices in North Africa and the Middle East known as Arab Spring. But the story reached a new chapter last week in Tahrir Square in Cario, where the Egyptian military and governing forces offered the world yet another powerfully devastating example of what seems permissible to do to a woman’s mind, body and spirit. It is difficult to shake the images from the viral video of Egyptian soldiers kicking and clubbing a half naked female protester on the streets. One soldier’s army boot stamping purposefully on the woman’s exposed chest has made an indelible mark on both Egypt and the world.

Reuters quoted U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton in a recent speech at Georgetown University saying, “Women protesters have been rounded up and subjected to horrific abuse. Journalists have been sexually assaulted. And now, women are being attacked, stripped, and beaten in the streets. This systematic degradation of Egyptian women dishonours the revolution, disgraces the state and its uniform and is not worthy of a great people.”

Unfortunately we cannot look at Egypt and shake our heads because based on what we see occurring in both the developing and developed parts of the world, this “systematic degradation of…women” points to the prevailing narrative capturing our human imagination on what it means to be a woman, namely that our bodies are without value, are dispensable, and are public commodities to be acted upon freely by others. Just last month NBC covered the story of North Carolina’s eugenics program for women in which mostly poor, black women were forcefully sterilized. A few years back Nicholas Kristof wrote in the NYT about the acid attacks on women in Pakistan. We hear so much of the horrific sexual and physical violence against Congolese girls and women that I worry we are becoming immune to the shock and horror of such atrocities. All the ways in which we treat women’s bodies point to the sort of imagination we hold for women. Naturally, how we imagine women has clear ramifications on how we relate to women. Pick from any number of taglines to follow: advertising, pornography, video games, music lyrics. Each will take you down a similar trail of research and conclusions. This stuff is not new. But that doesn’t mean we should stop paying attention.

There is another story worth listening to that has also been breaking out over the last two weeks. It tells another side of how to hold women in our collective imagination. Last week, in another country but not too far from where the Egyptian women have been protesting for their civil rights, marching in solidarity for one another and demanding justice from governing forces, a young unwed girl in an insignificant town gave birth to a baby boy.  The girl’s name is Mary and both she and her family say she has never had sex. But she just delivered a child and people have been saying that the child is the son of God, and the girl, virgin or not, claims that the Holy Spirit got her pregnant. She has also claimed that her child has been born to answer the cries of the oppressed, to upturn power from unjust governments and to lift high those considered without value, dispensable, in other words, “the lowly.” Naturally, a lot of people have a problem with this story. But I’ve been wondering, as I listen to the news around the world, if our biggest obstacle to paying attention to this story is that it would mean adhering to a different narrative about what it means to be a woman, a God-centered narrative, a narrative that suggests that women have a sense of their own power. Such awareness should be enough to threaten armies and governments. Those in political power should be worried. What if a woman’s body held the beginning of the end of their oppressive regimes? What if resistance took the nonviolent form of bodily protest issued from a female body? What if a woman actually stood up to fear and consented to have her body bear the mark of God’ strength, God’s mercy, God’s gaze and God’s justice? What if a girl like Mary did say to God, “Here, I am,” and chose to align her power with God’s power? If this is true then it means that God has a wholly different sense than we have sinfully imagined of what it means to be a woman. If it is true then it means that God has heard countless other women say, “Here I am.” God has heard women like Nehad Abul Komsan, head of the Egyptian Center for Women’s Rights (ECWR). say, “Here I am. ” God has heard Elaine Riddick, who sought justice after she was forcibly sterilized say, “Here I am.” God has heard Congolese women, rape victims ready to speak out say, “Here I am.”

There is a beautiful Chinese proverb that says, “When sleeping women wake, mountains move.” Egyptian women are awake. In response to seeing their “sister” and “daughter” violated by the Egyptian military’s abuse of power these women have taken to the streets in continued protest marching together and in effect promising one another not to turn away in fear, promising one another to keep testifying against an unjust and false narrative of what it means to be a woman. And instead to courageously keep trying to create a new narrative for all Egyptians to bear witness.  The response of Egyptian women is a promise to stand firm and to be present, here, now.

If the story about that young girl named Mary is true then it means that God is in the business of aligning God’s power with willing women for the healing of the world regardless of their country of origin. God is in the business of seeking justice for any woman, child or man whose mind, body or spirit has been misused, abused and “systematically degraded.” Creative power aligned with the power of women. Surely we should be paying attention.

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Enuma Okoro (M.Div) was born in the NYC but reared in four countries on three continents. A writer, speaker, consultant, and retreat / workshop leader, she writes regularly for abc Good Morning America, Sojourners, Christianity Today and others.  Okoro is the former director of the Center for Theological Writing at Duke University Divinity School, of which she is a graduate.

Her spiritual memoir, Reluctant Pilgrim: A Moody, Somewhat Self-Indulgent, Introvert’s Search for Spiritual Community was released in September 2010. She is also co-author with  Shane Claiborne and Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove, on Common Prayer: A Liturgy for Ordinary Radicals. When she’s not writing she can be found with a cup of coffee or a glass of wine in hand, depending on the time of day. Visit Enuma at www.enumaokoro.com

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Enuma OkoroEnuma Okoro (M.Div) was born in the NYC but reared in four countries on three continents. A writer, speaker, consultant, and retreat / workshop leader, she writes regularly for abc Good Morning America, Sojourners, Christianity Today and others. Okoro is the former director of the Center for Theological Writing at Duke University Divinity School, of which she is a graduate. Her spiritual memoir, Reluctant Pilgrim: A Moody, Somewhat Self-Indulgent, Introvert's Search for Spiritual Community was released in September 2010. She is also co-author with Shane Claiborne and Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove, on Common Prayer: A Liturgy for Ordinary Radicals. When she's not writing she can be found with a cup of coffee or a glass of wine in hand, depending on the time of day. Visit Enuma at www.enumaokoro.comView all posts by Enuma Okoro →

  • http://www.emergingmummy.com Sarah@EmergingMummy

    Enuma, this is beautiful, evocative and yet terrible. Powerful, powerful. Thank you for writing it. I’ll be sharing. 

    • Helloenuma

      Thank you Sarah, for reading and sharing!

  • Jeff

    This is nothing new, women have always been second and third class citizens of the world. Christanity has certainly carried on the tradition, even today women are second class citizens within the church. You don’t have to search very far in early church writings of our leaders to see just how warped attitudes have been towards women.

    • Holldoug

      Sorry Jeff, you are just so so wrong. Christianity liberated women. Look at history buddy. Everywhere were women’s rights were foremost were in Christian countries ( with the historical exception of Sparta ). In the ancient cultures of Babylon , Assyria, Greece and Rome girls were married off at typically 12 and with no say in it at all. Alvin Schmidt in his book ‘How Christianity Changed the World’ relates that research shows that Christian women in those cultures married later AND HAD THE CHOICE in the matter. Today you need only visit and non-Christian country eg Islamic or African to see the lack of women’s rights. Christianity liberated women to an enormous degree and it is in Christian countries were womens’ rights were championed and first introduced.
      It is only the black armband brigade , Marxists and fellow travellers who deny or denigrate Christianity’s incredible uplifting of the status of women.
      The high value of women in our society is as a result of our Christian traditions. Another reason we have to be thankful for the Lord Jesus.

      • Keith Carr61

        It should also be noted what scripture says about the value of a woman. The attrocities are accepted in the Muslim world but not in the Christian world. This is a subject I have been screaming that progressives want to avoid because it is pointing the finger at Muslim beliefs and customs……sorry you cant have it both ways.

      • Celeste

        From my personal experience the church so treats women as second and third class citizens. Yes, their words may not, but their actions speak so much louder. Your point of Christian countries allowing the liberation of women is correct, yet that does not mean that the church itself liberated women. In fact, it is quite the opposite. I was always taught, by the church and those in it, that feminism was not aligned with Christianity.
        I do not see our society placing a high value on women today. I see the entire world regressing in this area. (My experience is not limited to the US as I work with an NGO in Kenya with young Maasia girls forced to endure FGM and early marriages).
        And in regards to Keith’s comment below, I believe there are atrocities accepted in the Christian world, they are often just swept under the rug – so to speak. I can’t tell you how many women I have personally listened to, that shared when their husbands were beating and abusing them,  they were told if they would just pray more it would be ok. Really, that is the value placed on women as a result of Christianity and it’s influence on society?

        • Keith Carr61

          Celeste, If you are saying that bad advice is the evidence women are not treated fairly in a Christian environment I must disagree. I, as a man, have been given advice in my marriage that bordered on the same irresponsible attempt at avoiding an issue.
          The “point” I believe that is most important is that the Christian faith does not encourage or condone such behavour. Just because some choose to avoid issues by telling you to pray about it doesnt condemn the whole lot of us.
          As far as womens lib…..I think God takes exception to much of their agenda. I believe I remember an article in a black womens magazine a few years back that was entitled “Why White Women Dont Like Black Women” and the end conclusion of the author was this; “I dont know why we are fighting each other as we both have a common enemy…..The white male” 
          There is much wrong with the way many women are treated by their spouses however just the opposite is true so its not a one sided topic. Before I type the next sentence I want to say that the problem with the downfall of Chrisian Churches has much to do with MEN shirking their assingned role that God gave them as taking the spiritual leadership within the home.
          I believe what the Bible says which is found In Corinthians;” But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ.” I know you will disagree however there is a good book by Elisabeth Elliot entitled “A Christian View of Women’s Liberation” that speaks much to the roles that God has for each of us.
          I think that women are God’s greatest creation and he chose you to bring life into this world. I respect women much more than men in most instances as women have stepped into many leadership roles because of a lack willingness of me in our churches.
          By the way, a man that beats a woman is not Gods man so praying about it is probably less timely than a good shoe up his posterior. ;) I am available should you need a size 11.

  • Joy

    Very powerful. 
    Thank you!

  • Holldoug

    Enuma,
    Powerful piece. To me it raises the question of should the ‘Christian’ west leave Afghanistan’s women to the tender mercies of the Taliban ? Is it moral for us to abandon them ?

  • Holldoug

    Enuma,
    Powerful piece. To me it raises the question of should the ‘Christian’ west leave Afghanistan’s women to the tender mercies of the Taliban ? Is it moral for us to abandon them ?

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