Screw Your Neighbor

Have your ever noticed how we so easily invert traditional – even Biblical sayings and values?

We might call ourselves Christians, but our language, if not our behavior, will betray us every day.

As Paul put it, faith comes from hearing (Romans 10:17) and we hear it from those around us, and perhaps most of all from the repercussions of our own voices and actions in the lives of others.

One of these ways is the sayings we have absorbed and hear, or use so often that we accept them as true and reliable.

Here’s a familiar example; we all know the Golden Rule – Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. A simpler version might be ‘treat others the way you want to be treated’.

It is simple, but simple does not mean easy. If we follow this rule at all, we do it on a directly personal level.

On a social or political level, we live by the modern capitalist version of the Golden Rule – “The one with the gold makes the rules”.

This ‘rule’ in spite of being a cynical distortion of the word of God, is much easier to live by.

We easily and conveniently forget how ‘jealous’ God is when it comes to honoring both the spirit and the letter of His word and how much He hates those who distort His word for their own ends.

Besides our words, the games we play directly reflect our values. Any parent or budding anthropologist knows that we use games to pass our values and priorities to the next generation.

If this is true, and it obviously is, what are we to make of a game like Monopoly where the direct purpose of the game is to drive the other players into bankruptcy? Winning is defined by the destruction of the other players.

To put it mildly, this winner-take-all ethic would certainly not be healthy behavior in any family or national or global economy.

And it is certainly not a model one finds in the Bible.

Another popular game is ‘screw your neighbor’ – a card game with a caustic nod to the Biblical mandate to ‘love your neighbor’.

Is it too much to ask that our games reflect at least the higher and better values of humanity even if the character of God is a bit of a stretch for most of us?

After all, as Ashleigh Brilliant put it “Life is the only game in which the object of the game is to learn the rules”.

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Morf Morford considers himself a free-range Christian who is convinced that God expects far more of us than we can ever imagine, but somehow thinks God knows more than we do. To pay his bills, he’s been a teacher for adults (including those in his local county jail) in a variety of setting including Tribal colleges, vocational schools and at the university level in the People’s Republic of China. Within an academic context, he also writes an irreverent ESL blog and for the Burnside Writers Collective. As he’s getting older, he finds himself less tolerant of pettiness and dairy products.

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Morf MorfordMorf Morford considers himself a free-range Christian who is convinced that God expects far more of us than we can ever imagine, but somehow thinks God knows more than we do. To pay his bills, he’s been a teacher for adults (including those in his local county jail) in a variety of setting including Tribal colleges, vocational schools and at the university level in the People’s Republic of China. Within an academic context, he also writes an irreverent ESL blog and for the Burnside Writers Collective. As he’s getting older, he finds himself less tolerant of pettiness and dairy products.View all posts by Morf Morford →

  • Roberta Taylor

    Interesting thoughts, and as families spend more and more time playing games as a way to reconnect in a hurried digital world, relevant ones. As a board game enthusiast and designer, I think a lot on games for family. There are a huge number of ‘German style’ board games which in general do not involve direct conflict or player elimination,and often focus on building something better or more efficiently than your opponents (Agricola, Zooloretto). There is also a growing family of cooperative games which are a lot of fun to play (Pandemic/Forbidden Island). Lots to explore if you wish to game with your family! (check out the boardgamegeek.com for way more information and opinions than you could ever hope to need)

  • tarl_hutch

    This is one issue I keep running into again and again in the Christian community. It is stunning to me to see how people so readily and easily seperate personal and social ethics. It is fine to love ones neighbor on a personal day to day level, but socially and economically it is a me first america centric ethic. Now i love my country and the people in it, but I know that my “golden rule” is not limited by manmade boundaries.

    I believe this is directly related to the materials we consume and who we look to for direction. It is interesting you sjould bring up games as an example, because I have always hated monopoly. More out of tedium, but the ethic applies as well. I don’t think we have to have only ethical games, but we should use them to teach the difference between reality and fiction. If we spent more time teaching our children the just ways of Jesus and the bible, instead of solely focusing on making money and getting a good job. It seems like so many well meaning people tell their children one thing about being loving and kind, then teach and so another by focusing on money and policy that build one group at the expense of another.

    I am not saying it is easy, but we need to find a way to make our personal morals public and social, instead of letting the doctrines of folk like Ayn Rand influence everything from the stock market to boardgames. We can live a good life, while making it possible for others to have the same opportunities. When Jesus said, there is no greater love than laying down ones life for another, he wasn’t just talking about dying. We need to live sacrificially for the benefit of our neighbors.

    • tarl_hutch

      Nice post by the way.

    • http://www.facebook.com/otro.tierra Otro Tierra

      Indeed, putting Jesus first is not easy, but it is possible. The Gospel of Jesus must be prioritized over the gospels of Constantine, Ayn Rand, and the myths of unregulated capitalist expansion.

  • Senor Bueno

    I never knew that God “hated” anybody for any reason….

    • tarl_hutch

      Anthromorphic language to differentiate between behaviors that bring us into God’will or dance, as compared to actions that break our connection to the ways of God.

      • tarl_hutch

        Correction – Anthropomorphic

  • Antonio Rodriguez

    I think you’d enjoy a simple book called “Finite and Infinite Games” by James P. Carse. A finite game is played for the purpose of winning, while an infinite game is played for the purpose of continuing the game. I tend to see Jesus’ version of the Golden Rule as the Infinite version, while the capitalist version is the finite one. See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Finite_and_Infinite_Games for a quick summary, and http://www.amazon.com/Finite-Infinite-Games-Vision-Possibility/dp/0345341848 for the book itself.

  • someguy

    Ahh, the evil “we”. How easy it is to write in third person. Easy, that is, assuming you know everyone’s heart and mind. Otherwise it is just lazy.

  • Iago

    Whilst I agree that games shape our character (and don’t condone violent video games set in the Middle East), I still think it’s easily possible to view games as healthy and harmless competition for the sake of fun. If two Christians are playing a game of chess you would agree that they are simply solving a puzzle, but also trying to commit regicide!

    Monopoly – it’s just a game!

  • Anonymous

    This reminds me of when a few classmates at a Mennonite seminary were throwing around the concept of playing Monopoly according to the biblical laws of Jubilee. Every 7 (or would it have to be 50?) times around the board, debts would be forgiven, or something like that.

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