God has a deeper understanding of us. God gets the nuances of adoption and understands our pain—all of it, even the parts we think we’ve kept totally hidden. Jesus, too, was an adoptee, after all. And God is near to the brokenhearted—adoptees included, because adoption isn’t possible without a trail of broken hearts.
The wise never make a decision when under duress. Time will tell. We will see what unfolds.
Grief is an emotional, mental, and spiritual wound — and this is precisely because it is a relational wound.